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Old Nov 22, 2020, 02:17 PM
What_the_hell What_the_hell is offline
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I've met a girl on tinder this summer who was really into me from the start. She was also the most beautiful women I've ever seen in my opinion haha so I was kind of easy with her: I opened up quite quickly, agreed with a lot of things that she was proposing because I wanted to please her and she behaved like she just craved me.
She asked me what do I want with her and I responded 'to date & see where it goes" (we have been on one date at that point). She said she wanted the same. On our second date she mentioned having feelings for her straight friend and trying to get over it by taking distance from that friend. I chose to ignore it, tbh. On the third date we had sex and my feels went through the roof, I started feeling in love & also very vulnerable. Somehow, I felt like she was less interested now.. She kind of disappeared for a week and when I reached out, wasn't making plans to meet up. I asked directly what's up and she opened up saying that things happened with that friend and it is possible that her feelings for that friend are mutual. "I am a mess", she wrote and stated wanting to be my friend for now. I wished her all the best and shut it down. She expressed feeling guilty and asked if there's anything she could do & I didn't reply.

She reached out two times since then, first asking if i blocked her, and second asking 'how are you?' to which I didn't respond. I keep thinking about her A Lot, I really liked her physically and mentally from what I've seen - however, being realistic I have only seen her 3 times in my life and this Should be very surface level, yet I find myself feeling more (which is annoying!!). I went through venting, allowing myself to be angry, to be sad, to forgive etc but the truth is she's still on my mind.
Do you think it's worth reaching out? I am afraid to be in the same situation again :\ Any advice appreciated!
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