@Open Eyes OE, sending you lots of hugs and I'm so sorry. I know you're going through a lot. I felt so bad when I responded on your post in the other subforum bc while I was trying to make you feel better, the blood infection slipped my mind and I was worried I'd made you feel worse. I was literally cringing. I'm so sorry about that. On my part, in this thread for instance, and in general, I think I need to work on being more skillful with my communication.

Edit: also I should not have called you insensitive. I'm sorry.