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Old Nov 22, 2020, 04:37 PM
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Originally Posted by lizardlady View Post
Fuzzy, your FOO sounds extremely toxic.

In terms of Papa Bear being overwhelmed by "too much verbal information" in what way does is cause a problem? Maybe it would help to look for a solution to that instead of a diagnosis for him?
Thanks lizardlady

Papa bear tends to shut down and not listen (but pretends to listen) in social situations. He doesn't find them interesting. I don't blame him, the conversations often have not been interesting. He has specialist interests. He used to be described as ''introverted'' in school reports, not overly ''shy''... just not a talker. More of a thinker, a scientist.

In every day ''superficial'' or work related conversations he is completely ''normal''....

He seems to desire less social interaction than anyone else I have known. I guess that isn't a problem. I'm finding ways of working around this I'm not very social either, I have found some humans, especially all of the FOO, to be ......

We do laugh and have fun together. Maybe I am indeed ''too needy''
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