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Originally Posted by seesaw
Long story short, yes, I think he was using you. I'm sorry he was a jerk when that woman did that to you, but it sort of sounds like he only cares about his own needs. I mean, you were groped by a stranger and he acts like it's your fault? I'm sorry he turned out to be such a poor quality of character. Maybe stick to female friends for a while. Not because men can't be good friends, but maybe you're having challenges reading them and their intentions?
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Hi, sorry for the slow response. The pandemic has made me more depressed among other things I have been going through. Thanks for your response. That''s what it seemed like to me too.
He actually laughed about what happened with that weird drunk woman who did that to me. He told me to take it as a 'compliment'. I'm sure that he wouldn't have liked having a guy rub himself up against him Especially since he's straight.
I told him that and he didn't say anything back to me. He just mostly went on and on about how everything was my fault and that I was being picky with the drinks and it's a 'safe' area.
You'[re right, I DO have trouble reading people sometimes, especially guys. I think that I might be slightly autistic. I can read obvious social cues, but I'm not good with subtle messages. Both the physical and the verbal kind.
Sometimes I think guys are just being friendly or nice to me. I haven't had much experience with guys either and most of the friends that I have or had had have also not been able to read men that well in the past either.
I feel that I can no longer trust any guy. Even the so called gay ones. I'll just stick to dealing with female friends on;y from now on.