My sister called me this morning like she does every Sunday morning. We tend to have pretty good talks but sometimes we don't. Well anyways, here's my question is to what happened this morning and I'm wondering if I was right or wrong in what I did.
My sister told me that she's going to send me a Christmas gift. So many times, over the years, she has told me that she will send me Christmas and birthday gifts and they never came. She always had excuses as to why she didn't send them to me. I really dislike it when people say that they will do something nice for me and then not deliver. She's done that almost all of the time for a good many years.
This time I just called her out on it. I said that it's not nice and kind of cruel to tell someone that you will do something and not deliver. If I did that to her I would really hear about it and she would get very nasty. I always deliver on my promises I make with people and if I didn't then I would explain. Because I feel that it's hurtful to not come through on a promise or proposal. If she couldn't send me a gift at all, then I wouldn't mind. I prefer her to just not say anything than to say something and not come through.
I told my friend about it and he said that I was wrong for confronting her. I don't think I was because it's a bad habit that my sister has. She does it constantly. What do you think? Was I wrong for calling her out on that?
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