Anything that makes me feel close to him helps. Sharing things, touch, sending pictures or stuff we like. If I share something big with him... he doesn't usually show any emotion which I find a bit odd I guess, sort of feels like he doesn't believe me or can't understand it. He usually responds with "That sounds... awful/terrifying etc". I think it would help if he could comfort me when I tell him stuff.

Things that don't help are him putting me in a box with other clients, telling me that my soul is hidden, saying he is more comfortable doing things with his other clients, or if he looks bored and he might be feeling like I'm just another 50 minutes to fill his day.