Hi,

My name is Tyler and I've been married to my husband for 4 years. We just found out he is High functioning autistic/aspergers as well. It is so overwhelming to find this out and try to work through my feelings alone.

I'm grateful that there are other women who are going through this same struggle, at least I am not completely alone. Thank you for being open and sharing your struggle.

I cannot imagine what you are going through with having two children as well as a husband with ASD. All I can say is I'm so sorry you are going through so much. You do not deserve to be in a one-sided relationship or take on the burden of raising kids alone.

One thing I've been realizing lately, is that I don't deserve to be be treated like property. I have my own dreams, needs, and wants. I am not a possession that someone can use and then dispose of when they are done getting what they want...