I met a woman when I was at university some years ago and we hang out a few times. I never saw her as a friend, just like a schoolmate.

But many years after we ended our university studies she contacted me and we talked by phone a few times. When she moved closer to where I live she suggested we could meet.

We now recently talked on the phone and she told me I could get back to her about my meeting with an employment coach to tell her how things went.

I thought that sounded positive and by that I texted her about the meeting and how it went.

I of course began with asking how her day has been. She answered shortly to that and commented on my meeting with the employment coach.

But she didn't ask me any questions at all. I texted back and commented on what she had written about her day and also about my meeting but as she didn't ask me any questions I didn't either. (As I've also had already asked about her day).

Then she answers back with like "standard" comments and in a "polite and appropriate" way which made me ignore her text.

It was HER who asked me to contact her about how my meeting went but then she didn't seem that interested.

I got angry about it all so I texted her and said like "this isn't interesting to you but I wanted to tell you as we talked about my upcoming meeting earlier on." "Never mind".

She just upsets me although it's SHE who wanted us to talk on the phone and then that I could tell her how the meeting went.

I've ended all contacts with "friends" because of similar situations like this. People never engage in a deeper and thoughtful way and they just disappoint me.

Now of course this person doesn't text me back. I ended **** like this several years ago and now don't have any friends at all but that's because it always ends up this way.