I've also had my share of ruptures in recent years and my T has always wanted and even pushed for us to talk about it and work through it. There have been numerous times when I've professed that she was the issue - and again, she's always encouraged me to express it. I also had a time when I kept feeling distant from her and I stopped seeing her - with no notice. And after a while she reached out. I went back and she said she was struggling with me just disappearing and wasn't sure if reaching out was the right decision - but she went with her gut and with what she thought was best for me.