I understand this very well as a member of my family is always having to be in control and always right. Tonight she even told me that she is the only one in the family who cares about my mom even though I have been caring foe her most of the last 2 years and accused me of lying about something ridiculous in front of my kids. They know I don’t lie so all she ended up doing was to show them her true colors. She makes me so sad. I often cry myself to sleep.