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The first month or so of our relationship was not the greatest. He was not the greatest.
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What does this mean? Does it have to do with the virginity issue or did other things happen?
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A few weeks after that he also made a couple of inappropriate jokes about my best friend which I almost dumped him for.
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What exactly did he say?
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The only reason I didn’t was because we had many long talks about it and he showed true remorse and swore to me they were nothing more than jokes and he would never say anything like that ever again and told me how much I and our relationship meant to him and he didn’t want to mess it up like how he’s messed up in the past.
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Sometimes, remorse is more to do with a person feeling like his/her character is being questioned which is causing them panic, rather than feeling remorseful over the fact they've hurt someone else.
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We still argue sometimes, like every couple does
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What do you typically argue about? I ask because being in a relationship is very new to you so I wouldn't assume how you argue is typical in all relationships.
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But when I’m alone at night with my thoughts I go back to those incidents we had towards the beginning and wonder if I made the right choice.
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Listen to your gut instincts.
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But now we’ve come so far that I don’t know if I see the point now.
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To breaking up with him?
It sounds like a stressful relationship and you're giving him the control. Don't. There IS a point.. always.