Also on a side note I firmly believe her to be the one that needs therapy. She's always had some sort of you know issue with irritability and depression throughout most of her life according to her mother and she's always been " " occasionally hateful and she's never sought help because she thinks it's stupid to see a therapist and to me it seems like it would challenge who she is as a person if she were to see a therapist because most of my emotional issues are usually due to some kind of conflict or something that affects me in my environment