Pinksoil, how are you doing now? I hope you're feeling better and that you have plenty of good support IRL (you obviously have a wonderful therapist).

I'd agree that this thread should stay on-topic. Riptide: I think you could have expressed your opinion while still being supportive. That would have been appropriate to a thread where someone is in pain. Everyone has their own opinion about what type of help they need, and it may or may not coincide with what other people think is best. It's possible to disagree without belittling the person asking for help.

Pink, I hope things are better. I'm not on the forum as much as I used to be, but I've been checking in on your threads to see how you're doing.

Sidony