Hi Magnolia, welcome to Psych Central. I am sorry you are struggling with this challenge. With his parents visiting so often and staying for days it’s no wonder you are feeling like your space is constantly being invaded.

It’s nice to have family visit but after they leave it can feel exhausting. I don’t think it matters how nice they are. We all need our own space. Our home is meant to be OUR own sanctuary. It’s hard to have that when your family is constantly staying for lengths of time like you are describing.

It’s sounds like it’s time for a sit down with your husband to talk about finding a way to spread out these visits so you have more time to relax with each other and developing your intimacy again.

Are you doing grad school online due to COVID restrictions? I don’t quiet know how things are in Florida.