I'm pretty horrified and sorry those things happened to you guys as children @Jaclyn125. Children shouldn't be shamed and verbally abused, neglected, humiliated and blamed for their parents failings, just to name a few things I picked up on from your post. And I don't blame you at all for feeling the way you do towards your family - it comes from the years of hurt growing up. Yes, your family was dysfunctional as far as I'm concerned.

And welcome to PC, as well.👋