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Originally Posted by MsLady
I'm leaning towards this as your concern, as well.
Trust your gut instincts as it's there to help you. You're also approaching 30 years so if you're still feeling repulsed and uncomfortable around your mom, pay attention.
Yep.. sounds odd. She's having you focus on her body, as a boyfriend/husband might. Wearing your sweater? Crossing boundaries, again. She's not your girlfriend.
Is she still married? Where's your dad in all this?
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Yes, they're together and seem to be doing okay, wich wasn't the case before. My dad is a narcisist and a bully though. He always asserts his dominance and shuts her off or ignores her input whenever he can. Also he has a good position that comes with obligations for her and we moved across continents because of his job. Basicly the couple revolves around him as did the family when i was growing up. Maybe she has needs or fantasies that he doesn't fulfill and out of frustration she turns to her children?