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Originally Posted by MisterPaul
Envy combined with specific frame of mind. It says: "I work my ***** off and I'm alone because I have no time for people and that guy (a random friend for example) dates that girl and walks around as if he owns the world while he's doing very little compared to me".
I know, rationally, that it's about choices. And there is a price to be paid on both sides.
He's chasing around girls but the price is some average job he has.
I'm chasing career dreams and I get great results, proceeding towards something very special. The price is being alone.
I'm aware of it, rationally... doesn't change much though.
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Are these random people reminding you of someone?
I didn't realize how much anger I had at my mother, and myself until I got into therapy. People do stuff that triggers me all the time.
That guy could be working hard to have a happy life, or he could be really exploitative, and just taking what he can get with no care for the consequences. If he's just a random guy though... it's a shame that it's getting to you.
Thing is, if someone in the past has used you, and effectively stolen from you, it's not going to help you taking from someone else.
I hope that makes sense.
It's good you're having career success
