*I* didn't say anything about not caring whether I had an orgasm... but it doesn't turn me on any more to watch my male partner get off with another woman than it does for him to get me off directly. The man's participation is not the "variable" in this kind of arrangement. Seems to me that if a woman is looking to spice up her sex life, it needs to be for HER and what SHE can get out of it, not to merely make someone else's fantasy come true.

In fact, I'm guessing that if someone's wife doesn't have much endurance with her partner alone, then she wouldn't see the point in being pressured to spend even MORE time and energy introducing a third person to the mix, if all she'd be doing is allowing her partner an additional outlet.

That being said, if a woman's desire is to watch her partner with another woman, then sure, a threesome with an emphasis on the man's "skills" would come into play. I don't know too many women who would be into that, though. I think those women would be quite the exception to the rule, but hey what do I know? I suppose another poll with that question would clear up the issue for Tim.