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Originally Posted by KBMK
Hi Lisa, that's got to be hurtful. Did they talk to you about what you had done, or just skip right to pushing you out?
Have you thought about asking why/how long you're being shut out?
I don't understand it. The only times I have shut people out is when they have overstepped repeatedly, or ignored me so we keep having the same argument. I can't really understand what has gone on here. Are your sisters being over-protective of your mother, or is your mother creating the friction?
I don't understand what you could have done (that's not abusive) that would cause this kind of dynamic. It sounds like they aren't treating you with much compassion. Do you have very different personalities?
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It was kinda of only my mom who talked to me about the situation and I remember so clearly her telling me I had to talk to a therapist and some other things, which I did, and then we would re evaluate the situation, and of course no it has not been. I think they are being protective of her but I would hope they would understand by now that i'm doing what I need to do to make the situation better. One of them is a very brainy person and quiet and the other is pretty outgoing but very out spoken as well. We always got along well when we were growing up, but the last several years I can go months without speaking to them, but my mom would always keep me up to date. I would go visit my mom at least once a month, now I have not gone to see her in over a year because I was told I can't go back to her house. It's all so confusing to me. I'm hoping my therapist can help me out and give me direction when I see her on thursday.