Call me Azul, Open Eyes :-) , under the mask is someone very very scared and it’s not a problem at all if it’s only a trait, the problem is when it constitute a personality disorder, in this case is a pervasive pattern ingrain in the personality and not so easy to overcome.

I’m on Snap66’s side, I try to understand pretty everybody but I find very difficult to be beside an arrogant person. It’s just all the opposite to me. I can’t.
And I’m trying to understand where they are coming from.
I’m not a therapist. I can cope with little self-centred acts but up to it.