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Old Nov 30, 2020, 05:26 PM
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Originally Posted by pkh6965 View Post
It was kinda of only my mom who talked to me about the situation and I remember so clearly her telling me I had to talk to a therapist and some other things, which I did, and then we would re evaluate the situation, and of course no it has not been. I think they are being protective of her but I would hope they would understand by now that i'm doing what I need to do to make the situation better. One of them is a very brainy person and quiet and the other is pretty outgoing but very out spoken as well. We always got along well when we were growing up, but the last several years I can go months without speaking to them, but my mom would always keep me up to date. I would go visit my mom at least once a month, now I have not gone to see her in over a year because I was told I can't go back to her house. It's all so confusing to me. I'm hoping my therapist can help me out and give me direction when I see her on thursday.
I hope your therapist can help you get some clarity around the situation. There seems to have been a communication breakdown, and if you can't understand, and aren't getting answers from your family, that's bound to be confusing. I can't tell much from your posts about your relationships...ie. who reaches out, what your conversations are like etc.
I would agree that it is best to let go of expectations and focus on what you can do to heal, and if you are able to repair the relationships or not. It's a lot to consider.