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Toughcooki · Dec 01, 2020 at 07:39 AM

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Originally Posted by MickeyCheeky

There's no such thing as perfect Parenting, people simply try to do their Best. Can i ask You how Old is Your Eldest? if he's still in his teenage Years i'd say his behavior is quite "normal". In any case, we ALL make mistakes And i wouldn't dwell too much on it And on Past Regrets. Simply Focus on Being the Best Parent You can Be. SEnding many Safe, Warm Hugs to BOTH You, @Toughcooki, Your Family, Your FriEnds, Your children And ALL of Your Loved Ones! Keep fighting And keep rocking NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS, OK?!

Mid-20s. I was hoping that it'd settle down, but once I went no-contact due to threats and name-calling and yelling, it's actually gotten worse. It's like eldest is now furious that I'm not allowing myself to be abused by them.

And as odd as it sounds, it feels like abuse. How do you get abused by your kid? But for years of being told I'm awful and evil and the worst of everything and the cause of all the bad things in the world, it feels like abuse.