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Old Dec 01, 2020, 10:51 AM
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Cold feet because at the time I thought I needed approval from my family, but it was just all in my head..I was just hesitant and kept pushing back. He had it all planned out w/ my family and I ruined it. Now we are working through some growing pains.
I'm curious - what did he have planned out with your family? Was he being more traditional and asking your father and family for their blessing? Or was it something more than that? And if he knew you were dragging your heels, why was he making plans through your family rather than talking about it directly with you?
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