Thread: 31 and umarried
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Old Dec 01, 2020, 11:30 AM
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There is no best age to get married. What matters is being with someone who is a good match and will make you happy. This is what determines divorce, not age. It is not a race to settle with just anyone by whatever magic number.

After 3.5 years he doesn't seem to even want to settle, that doesn't seem very promising if you want to marry him.

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What if we break up and I never find anyone who is suitable for me who is at the right age and doesn't already have a family?
What if you stay with him or marry him and end up being unhappy and/or feeling unloved? Would that be preferable? There is no point rushing or getting married just because the clock is ticking.
Thanks for this!
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