Dear KBMK,

What heartbreaking situations you have endured! I am so, so sorry. In my own life I have suffered some terrible losses but after what seemed like an eternity I somehow passed beyond the grief. It is sad to see people who are beset by grief from every side. People like you inspire me in my own life and I think you are very heroic. So sorry again for your losses!

Sincerely yours, Yao Wen