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Originally Posted by RoxanneToto
I agree - he shouldn’t be arranging decisions that impact your life (I mean, getting married is a big deal to most people!) behind your back like that. If he can’t talk to YOU about the relationship you have together, and big decisions that affect both of you, that’s a bad sign. You’re entitled to a say in your own future!
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I think everyone is misunderstanding me... he asked my family for permission first, the traditional way. Everything was planned
out and they know he was going to ask me. During this time, we
were also planning to move in together. With this, plus a
proposal, I wasn't sure what to choose first: engagement, or
moving in. He didn't go behind my back maliciously. He was planning to SURPRISE ME. Obviously, I chose to move first. Clearly, I wasn't ready to be engaged or to get married.