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Default Dec 01, 2020 at 08:55 PM
 
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With the waxing, or the rise of the wave, I pay tribute. I give attention to what I have lost, and what it meant to me. I revisit the relationship, and visit resting places, and spend time with photos and mementos.

With the waning, or the fall of the wave, I let go. I say goodbye to whatever/whoever I have been paying tribute to, by moving forward in my life.
Very well spoken and described. This is inspiring to me. As you very well know I am dealing with a loss right now.

I love your ideas of how to deal with it. And it does come and go, or wax and wane.

I am terribly sorry for all your losses. I do hope you can find some comfort through this holiday season.


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