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Old Dec 02, 2020, 08:46 AM
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Always in This Twilight
 
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With my current therapist, I opened up quite a bit in the third session or so, like the floodgates opened (both in terms of sharing and tears). After session, I emailed him in a panic, worried he'd be freaked out by some of what I shared (stuff about my strong transference for ex-MC) and be unsure about working with me. He sent a long email reply, completely misunderstanding what I was asking and worried about. We worked through it, but I think if I'd been a bit more gradual in my sharing and waited until I trusted him, I wouldn't have had as much of a freakout about sharing so much so early. But I suppose it shows I felt comfortable with him?

I'm trying to recall how long it too with ex-T, but that was like 9 years ago...
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