I was trying to explain how a person can follow blindly by using the example of how to get a horse away from what they feel is safe but is not safe is by covering it's eyes so it blindly follows. This is where "following blindly" comes from.

When someone chooses to blame everyone else and plays the victim, it's their effort to convince others to follow them "blindly". The problem with this is that they also convince themselves THEY are the victim hense THEY too are blind. This is the burning barn they keep running into.

These individuals tend to act by IMPULSE and they don't look down the road at the consequences, they want what they want IN THE MOMENT. If relationships go badly because of this, it's always someone elses fault.