Life of victimhood might be easier than life of responsibility. If it’s never your fault and everyone else did you wrong, then you don’t have to take care of anything and you can just mope around. So it’s not a good life to live if you ask me, but in a way it must be easier. If nothing is ever your fault, then you are never responsible for anything. And it’s a sure way to make others take care of you and feel bad for you.

There are people who have issues in all relationships: in family, work place, romantic and in all friendships, and mysteriously it’s never their fault. It’s not even statistically possible. But oh well that’s how they choose to live. Be a victim if that’s what you (hypothetical you) want