I disagree it all happened because of you - as you said, you wanted more communication and he apparently doesn’t want to communicate. He’s basically making himself unavailable to you, which possibly makes you want him more.
I hope this doesn’t sound mean, it’s not meant to, but maybe you should explore the reason you want someone so badly who doesn’t feel the same way?
I’ve been in similar situations, myself, so I do get it. You deserve better, but I can’t make you believe it by myself.