The big thing that happened to me happened when I was 4 but cause a continuous chain reaction. I had the measles and loss my hearing. I was treated differently in school and had one teacher tell my mother I should be put in a state home away from normal kids. I had a neighbor man who told me god punished me for being bad and I should keep his secret (CSA) and I was always a bit off cause I couldn’t hear the small things that count. Like what is in and who’s who in school. I had depression young but no mania until my mid 20’s going though an abusive marriage.