Do you think thats a bad thing? If someone just decides they arent going to look for a relationship ever again. I kinda feel like im a 12 year old who got his heart broke and says it without realizing what it really means but i feel like i do. Ive thought this over. Im male but im over 30 and im depressed so my libido isnt that high anymore. I can survive without the uhh intimacy. I am totally fine with only having friends and a therapist to confide in. Not that i have any real life friends right now but i can make them maybe. Has anyone else decided this and is happier now?