I will share my experience....met a guy and he was majorly interested and we clicked. We talked on the phone, messaged; he called me princess and beautiful and couldn't wait for me to meet his family; bought me flowers on the first date; had him over to my house off and on; went out to dinner.....then I heard nothing from him; I waited a few weeks, texted him and asked....are you interested in continuing our friendship? His response was I have many friends. I, I, I.....it was all about him, and he didnt answer my question. I really thought he was the "one"---we had so much in common. I couldn't believe he "ghosted" me. I say all of that to say that unfortunately there are many people who are disrespectful and cruel. I waited 19 years.....to find a guy I really liked......No, it shouldn't have happened. Writing a letter of "restorative justice" can be helpful....restorative justice says....this is what you did, this is how it made me feel. ...the letter is for YOU.......you can send it or keep it. I am so sorry that happened.....it was not anything you did wrong. Try to put the blame where it belongs....on that disrespectful guy.......NOT on yourself. HE chose to stop communicating....HE ows you an explanation; HE is a coward.
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