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Old Dec 04, 2020, 05:43 AM
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Originally Posted by Lemoncake View Post
I need help to decide if I will turn up to my normal therapy session in 3 hours or just to leave without a follow up session at all.

I sent my T an email asking if I could have an extra session on monday as my anxiety was bad. I sent a follow up email telling him I was in a crisis on Wednesday. No replies to either.

The last time I was in crisis he told me that he was not my mother. He couldn't hand me a blanket or wipe my nose.That I needed to learn how to cope. He did previously reply to emails but for the past four weeks has implemented a complete no response mantra.

I'm angry at him and would rather spend £44.50 on chocolate.
Honestly, Lemon, it sounds like you might be better served by a different T, someone who has expertise in trauma and won’t engage in these push-pull dynamics with you.

(I am fully aware, though, that y’all say the same kinds of things to me about my T, and that it can be really hard to leave a therapist that you’re attached to.)
Hugs from:
Lemoncake, SlumberKitty
Thanks for this!
atisketatasket, LonesomeTonight, Quietmind 2