If you are concerned she will abandon you definitely talk to her. I doubt she will though. Trauma therapists know clients are on different places and all work at their own pace.

Based upon things I told my EMDR T and some incorrect assumptions based on what I presented as and my therapy history she thought I was in a different place emotionally when we started therapy. Since I was working with two therapists and was seeing her just for Emdr with very little preparation we jumped right in. it was awful I dissociated a lot.

We had to back way up and work on emotional regulation and resource building. Then when I lot my other T, we had to deal with life stressors. it has now been about 2 years since we attempted Emdr. Hopefully when we get back to face to face we can try again.

I, like you, have feared she would refer me to somebody else. We have spoken about it and says that she would not do that because we are making good progress.