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Originally Posted by TishaBuv
You’re not wrong to feel hurt about their not sending a thank you. Doesn’t everybody know if someone gives you a gift, you say thank you, whether it be verbal or a note like for a wedding? Heck if you read the Bride’s magazines (and I’d think everyone planning a wedding does), they tell you to thank people for gifts.
Maybe you’ll end up going to the wedding and meeting someone nice. Wait to send back the r.s.v.p. Closer to the date they asked (Did they send an invitation with an r.s.v.p. Card?)
The only invitation my cousin sent was a simple email and that wasn’t because of low budget resources. That’s how much she hates the formalities.
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Thank you so much once again for validating my feelings. Again it’s just wonderful to know someone like you who just seemed to read my mind! I feel the same way too about thank you’s. In a way it seems I get two completely different sets of the same person, one who would shower me with gratitude in person and the other who just doesn’t even bother with sending appreciation for my support in someone’s life event. It’s not only disheartening but in this perspective confusing I’m not getting the same person that I thought I knew. Maybe I should pitch in with mags for the grooms as well!
And good thing you asked. They didn’t send any invite or rsvp, but since the guy asked for my address he will probably use it again for something else later like an actual invite.