I am sorry angel, I have had nine year old innocent children and 15 is not so innocent, even if one has not been abused and re-enacts the trauma. I can't tell you it's not your fault you were a little kid but I can tell you that when my babies were 9 I wanted to protect them and knew that they couldn't understand this complicated evil stuff. By the way, let me think. Yup, I was frequently molested by older brothers from 5 to 9 years older then me. What did I know of penis's back then? Was it my fault, should I have known better? I was a little girl who wanted to be loved and I had no idea what was in store for me most of the time. Please trust the nine year old. Nine year olds are pretty cool. Some of my best times are with 9-12 year old girls teaching art. Please be nice to the little girl.