Thats a really good point. Ill get rid of the "ever again" because its true. If i look at what i was thinking in my early twenties to now and to have to live by some standard i set then id be more crazy than i am now. I dont have to feel any pressure that i am supposed to be in a relationship even if its a year or a decade or three later. Or if well meaning people start pushing things on me i have this thought out better to defend myself with. Thanks.