I'm excited for this date with geneticist guy tonight. He wants to cook me dinner and watch a scary movie (I have a thing on my dating profile about being too much of a wimp to watch scary movies alone), so I googled "scary movies that aren't too scary" and suggested Little Evil, which is on Netflix. It's supposed to be funny, and I hope it's not too scary--I really am a huge wimp when it comes to horror films

I am nervous about the issue of, um, SIM card shopping. T is always on about the idea that I get physically involved with guys too soon and that this tendency prevents me from having time to suss out the guy's true intentions towards me before I get all emotionally hooked. I dunno if T is right or not (or if he's just a prude/overprotective)... but regardless, I don't feel ready to get all up in geneticist guy's business just yet, and I'm worried that "let me cook you dinner and watch a scary movie with you" is code for something else entirely. I'll have to tell him I want to take things slowly, I guess? I'm never really sure how to frame that particular concept. Like, I'm not Amish or anything, and I consider myself a sex-positive person, but just like... yes, but not yet?