Hi and welcome. I'm sorry about the injuries you have had and the pain and panic attacks.

Different therapists provide different types of therapies. Some do depth work and some do other kinds of therapies.

It's always a good idea to talk to the therapist about things like this where they say something we don't agree with or don't understand. I would tell him everything you've said here when you see him next including how you feel about what he said. It's really important.