hi freewill......i'm new posting, not to to this forum or DID.
your story really grinds me.....and i'm sorry this has happened to you.
have you tried a lawyer? (many are pro-bono)
here is a link to the HIPAA Laws that all health professional must adhere to.
http://www.hhs.gov/ocr/privacysummary.pdf
The Health Insurance Portability and Accountability Act of 1996 (HIPAA),
i wish you the very best.
grace