i am so Sorry this is happening to You! Perhaps it may be a Good IDEA to put Your Husband in touch with a professional therapist to Help him UnderstAnd what is Going on. Even just One or Two visits may be Helpful, not necessarely a counselor in Full-Time, or perhaps even some online articles And videos. Do You think he may agree on that? In any case i do Hope And Pray that things Will Iprove REALLY SOON Between You Two! SEnding many Safe, Warm Hugs to BOTH You, @NaoSky, Your Family, Your FriEnds, Your Husband And ALL of Your Loved Ones! Keep fighting And keep rocking NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS, OK?!