Dear FrankIV,

I am so terribly sorry you are in the situation you described in your post. The whole thing sounds utterly heartbreaking. I wish I knew what to say to help ease your distress and grief. Hopefully others here will have the knowledge, insight and wisdom to be helpful to you. You are an amazing person. I have always thought that being a parent was the most noble and heroic life a person could live and so to me, you, being the parent of kids with autism is just way beyond noble and heroic. People like you inspire me so much and it saddens me that I do don't know what to say to be helpful to you. I can't even imagine what burdens you carry in your life and how heavy they are. Reading your words makes me think they are crushingly heavy. My heart goes out to you and my deepest apologies for not being able to be helpful to you.

Sincerely yours, Yao Wen