LOL I found the lye soap but I'm hiding it from you!

Dang! I forgot to tell him to document everything! I don't think she's co-habitating with him yet, but she's staying with her sister right next door to my son and the kids.

He called this morning to borrow some money for an attorney and said he'd probably be going to his birth mother's house to stay for a while. He's already got his appt with the attorney for Monday morning. The attorney came highly recommended by his birth mother (a pro at divorces - I think she's on her 5th?) and his new therapist. So we've got our fingers crossed.