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Originally Posted by emmaleemochizuki
I do that a lot. Trying to find a reasonable excuse for every single thing that's happened. I thought if I can find a justifiable reason for everything, then it will make what happened better. But it doesn't, having a reason doesn't make things any less painful, or more acceptable.
But still I find myself defending my abusers. I find reasons for them why they behaved the way they did, and when I can't find a reason I blame myself.
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Hello there.
Never make excuses for being the victim of sickos, it may be a little tricky to want to admit that, TBH we all have parallel personal abuse stories, that's why we should share our experiences and group together as a supportive network against these hidden abuses.
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