
Dec 12, 2020, 10:43 AM
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Member Since: Jul 2019
Location: Downtown Vibes, California
Posts: 15,701
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Dear Gaby, I am so sorry for your monumental loss. When my mom passed, even though she could be difficult and abusive, there were things about her that I loved...and she was my mom. The feeling I had when she was gone was that I was orphaned. Being without her on the earth has taken a lot of adjustment. And maybe we can't expect to be the same, after we lose our mothers. I guess we truly are in a different reality.
I'm so glad you have lots of support. Please practice self care (getting your needed sleep was so wise). Please be extra-kind to yourself. I know exactly what you mean about an afterlife...I don't know what to think, either. But not having answers is okay.
Your mom has my prayers, and so do you.
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Last edited by *Beth*; Dec 12, 2020 at 11:39 AM.
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