I have heard that people with borderline pd are dangerous people to be in a relationship with. I think that's why I left an old flame in a blind panic when I was 24 years old. Is it possible I suffered from complex-ptsd after leaving him? To say he put me through the mill is an understatement. I was a nervous wreck when I left him.
I have described the traits, he showed, in my posts in the creative section, I won't list them again.
I don't want to open up a can of worms. I know that some who have this, direct their pain and anger inwards, but men more than women, often direct it outwards and that's why they don't get a diagnosis. And women are more likely to talk and seek help.
I found him too intense, too possessive, controlling and I refused to play his mind games.
-It is your fault I have the life of a dog. I wish I had left you, I have the life of a dog now. It is you who gives me, the life of a dog. Then, it was, please don't leave, you may as well put a noose around my neck. Someone like you will never meet a man like me. You are lucky a man like me stuck by you-