Dear Younganddivorced,
Welcome to the Forums. It is very nice to meet you.
You have been through so much but how you have coped with it is so inspiring. I think that people like you are the real heroes of life.
Hopefully these Forums will be a warm and friendly place for you where you can find the understanding and compassion, encouragement and consolation that were so often denied to you in your life. I look forward to reading your posts here and want to wish you only the very best!
Sincerely yours, Yao Wen