I'm so tired. My brother and I visited my Dad earlier, but then soon after I returned home I got an email from my brother saying that my talking about my move to our dad makes him anxious and want to leave. Yes, I did notice that behavior during the visit, but what am I supposed to do? I am moving. It will happen. Should I pretend that it isn't in front of my father? He'd not a child! I understand it will make him sad, but I'm sad, too. And I'm the one facing a major change in my life. Frankly, my family has done very little to support me during this whole stressful process. Yet I'm supposed to start feeling guilty about my dad being sad I'm leaving? That's his issue to process. Adult children move away all of the time. It's nothing that odd.